Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Pegging

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Tristan Taormino should be a name familiar to many of you – or at least to those of you into fellatio training, locating the G-spot, or rough sex – and who better to turn to the in the days after International Strap-On Week in search of advice to help you use your new device. Oh, what? You didn’t indulge and finally let your lady assume the dominant position in your bedroom? Well, here’s what lies in store for those already set on engaging in some pegging, courtesy of one of our favorite sexologists.

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The first key to a good, smooth introduction to pegging, says Taormino’s Good Vibrations blog, is communication. Shut off your iPhone, drop the remote, and start discussing everything involved in your decision to try pegging. Assuming it’s a new experience, you’ll have some fear or trepidation that be coaxed away by declaring those worries and discussing them openly. You’ll know she knows you’re concerned about blah-blah, and she’ll be extra careful when blah-blahing.

Some more practical concerns apply, too, of course, one of which contradicts an age-old classic rule of intercourse: “Spit is not lube!” (And here we thought “If it gets you wet, it’s a sure bet!”) Saliva, according to our anal-play educator, does not cut it when it comes to the rear passage. Using a thick, water-based lube is preferred. And use a lot. (Like, really a lot.) One of the primary concerns of those intrigued but not sold on male anal play is what some call “The Ick Factor.” Yes, that’s where you shed your bodily waste, so you’d wanna get well and truly clean before letting anyone venture back there, wouldn’t you? Take a bath and polish up or devote yourself to an enema. Either way, some “ick” may remain so you might want to have your partner wear a glove, for smoothness of digital insertion as well as sanitation. It’s important to warm up and stretch before getting deep into it, so let’s hope she has nimble fingers.

Finding a harness and dildo that fits and suits your style is also hugely important, of course, and Good Vibrations has, of course, provided a fucking fantastic text-and-video guide to finding the right equipment for you, right here. Then it’s just a matter of putting all your knowledge, conversations, and experiments into play. Find the right speed and angle for your activity, create some great visual pathways with plenty of eye contact, let your free hand/s wander or head for their favorite spot, and, most importantly of all, feel good and enjoy yourself.

Now, if you need a more visual guide to pegging, Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men (with Penny Flame, Jandi Lin, Annie Cruz, Christian XXX) is available from Vivid-Ed and can also be viewed online at Videobox.

Mr. Pink’s also suggests Evil Angel for pegging videos.

International Strap-On Week Celebration!

I’m not one to excessively promote a business unless they’re paying me to do so or it’s one in which I have great faith and belief. San Francisco-based adult emporium Good Vibrations, however, has been doing such great work fostering an open and accepting adult community both in The City™ and around the country. After being prominent supporters (if not founders) of many days and weeks and months devoted to increasing awareness of sexual health now comes another Good Vibrations creation that could well and truly reshuffle your sexual priorities: it’s International Strap-On Week, y’all!

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Rather than detail the various tools and toys one interested in “strapping up” might consider for purchase, a task already performed by a few other adult bloggers, I thought I’d instead turn to some of Mr. Pink’s favorite adult sites in search of the most scorching strap-on scenes seen ’round these parts. Without further ado, as a warm-up for your own strapped adventures, for male and female readers both, here comes some truly great strap-on scenes and movies!

‘His Ass is Mine’ sees Evil Angel’s top directing duo, Francesca Le and Mark Wood, recruiting Owen Grey, Wolf Hudson, and other adventurous men to be strapped and stuffed by the plastic dicks of Abella Danger, the indomitable Aiden Starr, and Ms. Le herself. The couple, known for their anal domination of young starlets, don’t hold back when it comes to aggressively domming male bottoms.

– Aiden Riley has directed most of Evil Angel’s strap-on movies (Girls Will Be Boys, Girl Train, etc) but his crowning achievement thus far in this niche is certainly ‘Strapped Dykes’ a movie co-conceived with Belladonna that sees Arabelle Raphael, Sinn Sage, Jiz Lee, Tori Lux and others tying hefty cocks to their hips and pounding each other senseless in a dark, gritty, and sweaty all-girl movie.

– Meanwhile, back to pegging, Devil’s Film hosts ten amazing volumes of ‘Pegging: A Love Story’ a series centered around guys that want their woman to fuck them anally. Wolf Hudson, Tristan Matthews, and Christian XXX get tenderly filled by Jacky Joy, Ash Hollywood, Sienna West, Mena Mason, and many others before they, in turn, take dick (real dick) deep and hard.

‘The Destruction of Danica Dillon’ see the angelic brunette MILF and recent comeback queen dominated by four horned strap-on-wielding she-demons (Mena Mason, MIssy Martinez, Layla Price, Raven Rockette) who invade her every hole with their giant demon-dicks, sealing Ms. Dillon airtight with their strap-ons.

The celebration continues over at Good Vibrations, where strap-interested parties will find all manner of informative guides, how-to’s, and assorted tidbits of strap-on related information for both men and women, givers and receivers. There’s also even a #StrapWeekSelfie contest!

Peace, love, and strappiness to you all!

The Sadist is Present

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There are porn parodies and then there are porn movies that use existing cultural artifacts to create their own take on a popular subject. Most porn parodies use television or movies or comic books or public sex scandals as the basis of their hardcore, but Intersec Interactive has significantly different tastes than most pornography studios and has therefore opted to tackle a rather unusual subject for one of Top Grl’s challenging femdom sessions: Serbian artist Marina Abramović’s landmark 736-hour-and-30-minute performance piece, The Artist is Present.

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Devised and performed by Abramović for MOMA’s 2010 retrospective of her work, The Artist is Present saw a still and silent Abramović seated before gallery patrons, many of whom were moved to tears by nothing but the artist’s returned gaze. This might seem an odd sort of artwork to influence porn production, but Intersec Interactive is an odd sort of company. One of Kink.com’s few genuine competitors, Intersec has unleashed via Top Grl a scene entitled The Sadist is Present that, although using an unchanging endurance performance piece as its inspiration, thankfully offers a bit more activity than Abramović’s now legendary work.

Mona Wales has taken a seat, naked except for tall heels, when in walks Bonnie Day. Stunned, Bonnie receives her command: Make yourself comfortable. Ordered to strip in front of the embodiment of the perfect female figure, Bonnie follows each subsequent instruction to the letter, whether it’s kneeling in a pile of stiff rice grains, flogging herself with a cat o’ nine tails, and even peeling an onion only to use it as a masturbatory device.

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This is some weird shit, y’all, and it’s highly entertaining even though the rest of the scene takes place not in a gallery space but in a fairly typical bondage rack in some dank basement cum dungeon somewhere. More sadistic physical abuse is on the cards, only it uses the same tropes and tools found in most hardcore BDSM work. Clearly, then, art and porn are becoming increasingly intertwined (as also evidenced by the rise of publicly advertised and accessible erotic art shows and film festivals) but still have some way to go. For all the efforts of Mona Wales, Bonnie Day, and the Top Grl and Intersec teams, they still fall short of the epic commitment required by Abramović. But, hey, it’s a swell start!