Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Pegging

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Tristan Taormino should be a name familiar to many of you – or at least to those of you into fellatio training, locating the G-spot, or rough sex – and who better to turn to the in the days after International Strap-On Week in search of advice to help you use your new device. Oh, what? You didn’t indulge and finally let your lady assume the dominant position in your bedroom? Well, here’s what lies in store for those already set on engaging in some pegging, courtesy of one of our favorite sexologists.

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The first key to a good, smooth introduction to pegging, says Taormino’s Good Vibrations blog, is communication. Shut off your iPhone, drop the remote, and start discussing everything involved in your decision to try pegging. Assuming it’s a new experience, you’ll have some fear or trepidation that be coaxed away by declaring those worries and discussing them openly. You’ll know she knows you’re concerned about blah-blah, and she’ll be extra careful when blah-blahing.

Some more practical concerns apply, too, of course, one of which contradicts an age-old classic rule of intercourse: “Spit is not lube!” (And here we thought “If it gets you wet, it’s a sure bet!”) Saliva, according to our anal-play educator, does not cut it when it comes to the rear passage. Using a thick, water-based lube is preferred. And use a lot. (Like, really a lot.) One of the primary concerns of those intrigued but not sold on male anal play is what some call “The Ick Factor.” Yes, that’s where you shed your bodily waste, so you’d wanna get well and truly clean before letting anyone venture back there, wouldn’t you? Take a bath and polish up or devote yourself to an enema. Either way, some “ick” may remain so you might want to have your partner wear a glove, for smoothness of digital insertion as well as sanitation. It’s important to warm up and stretch before getting deep into it, so let’s hope she has nimble fingers.

Finding a harness and dildo that fits and suits your style is also hugely important, of course, and Good Vibrations has, of course, provided a fucking fantastic text-and-video guide to finding the right equipment for you, right here. Then it’s just a matter of putting all your knowledge, conversations, and experiments into play. Find the right speed and angle for your activity, create some great visual pathways with plenty of eye contact, let your free hand/s wander or head for their favorite spot, and, most importantly of all, feel good and enjoy yourself.

Now, if you need a more visual guide to pegging, Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men (with Penny Flame, Jandi Lin, Annie Cruz, Christian XXX) is available from Vivid-Ed and can also be viewed online at Videobox.

Mr. Pink’s also suggests Evil Angel for pegging videos.

International Strap-On Week Celebration!

I’m not one to excessively promote a business unless they’re paying me to do so or it’s one in which I have great faith and belief. San Francisco-based adult emporium Good Vibrations, however, has been doing such great work fostering an open and accepting adult community both in The City™ and around the country. After being prominent supporters (if not founders) of many days and weeks and months devoted to increasing awareness of sexual health now comes another Good Vibrations creation that could well and truly reshuffle your sexual priorities: it’s International Strap-On Week, y’all!

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Rather than detail the various tools and toys one interested in “strapping up” might consider for purchase, a task already performed by a few other adult bloggers, I thought I’d instead turn to some of Mr. Pink’s favorite adult sites in search of the most scorching strap-on scenes seen ’round these parts. Without further ado, as a warm-up for your own strapped adventures, for male and female readers both, here comes some truly great strap-on scenes and movies!

‘His Ass is Mine’ sees Evil Angel’s top directing duo, Francesca Le and Mark Wood, recruiting Owen Grey, Wolf Hudson, and other adventurous men to be strapped and stuffed by the plastic dicks of Abella Danger, the indomitable Aiden Starr, and Ms. Le herself. The couple, known for their anal domination of young starlets, don’t hold back when it comes to aggressively domming male bottoms.

– Aiden Riley has directed most of Evil Angel’s strap-on movies (Girls Will Be Boys, Girl Train, etc) but his crowning achievement thus far in this niche is certainly ‘Strapped Dykes’ a movie co-conceived with Belladonna that sees Arabelle Raphael, Sinn Sage, Jiz Lee, Tori Lux and others tying hefty cocks to their hips and pounding each other senseless in a dark, gritty, and sweaty all-girl movie.

– Meanwhile, back to pegging, Devil’s Film hosts ten amazing volumes of ‘Pegging: A Love Story’ a series centered around guys that want their woman to fuck them anally. Wolf Hudson, Tristan Matthews, and Christian XXX get tenderly filled by Jacky Joy, Ash Hollywood, Sienna West, Mena Mason, and many others before they, in turn, take dick (real dick) deep and hard.

‘The Destruction of Danica Dillon’ see the angelic brunette MILF and recent comeback queen dominated by four horned strap-on-wielding she-demons (Mena Mason, MIssy Martinez, Layla Price, Raven Rockette) who invade her every hole with their giant demon-dicks, sealing Ms. Dillon airtight with their strap-ons.

The celebration continues over at Good Vibrations, where strap-interested parties will find all manner of informative guides, how-to’s, and assorted tidbits of strap-on related information for both men and women, givers and receivers. There’s also even a #StrapWeekSelfie contest!

Peace, love, and strappiness to you all!

July’s Looking Big & Beautiful

Arbitrary societal standards and the mainstream media may have had us all convinced for decades that skinny women were where it’s at (as long as they’re somewhat curvy) but the recent rise in popularity of BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) porn has seen women formerly labelled “fatties” and “whales” pulled into the spotlight and celebrated for the strength and honesty of their bodies and beauty. Actually, larger women are so ‘in’ right now that the month of July is basically set to be a BBW-worship-a-thon in the spiritual home of American sin, Las Vegas, Nevada. The reason? BBWcon, the first plus-sized adult entertainment convention.

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Along with The Biggie Awards, a yearly tribute to the hottest and hardest working people in BBW porn, BBWcon aims to keep the BBW porn industry at a red-hot temperature, offering seminars, exhibitions, and social events all geared towards rewarding those working in BBW porn and their loyal fans. Featured guests are set to include Lexi Luxxxe, Sashaa Juggs, Cotton Candi, Erika Xstacy, and Eliza Allure and you might even hear them discuss face-sitting, career trajectories, piracy, and exploring sexuality in all its forms.

The concurrent Biggie Awards will also be placing crowns on the heads of the year’s best Ethnic Performer, Cam Girl, Fetish Performer, Male Performer, Newcomer, XXX and BBW Performers, as well as granting awards for Best Belly, Best Boobs, and Best Butt, along with dozens of other awards. Fan nominations have closed, but you can still vote for your favorite BBW (and related) performers and off-camera professionals at the Biggie Awards website.

Those more into the partying than the professional accolades could do a hell of a lot worse than BBWcon, too. Kimmie Kaboom, for one, is already excited and practicing hard to compete in Desiree Devine’s Boobie Bounce Offathon, and there’s further games and activities lined up for the weekend that’ll surely have you rubbing thighs and bulging waistlines with pornstar, fellow fan, and homegrown BBWs in equal measure.

BBWcon takes place at the Westgate Las Vegas Resort & Casino July 10th-12th with the Biggie Awards taking place on Saturday the 11th. Attendance packages start at $169 and include all kinds of tantalizing treats for BBWs and their admirers alike.